Art of choosing your bride

You have taken that HR girl to every restaurant and café around your office. Went to that famous pub with that intern girl. Enough. You are tired of flirting and roaming with girls came from every corner of India. You are done with typical Bangalore life.

On the other side, you have waited for hours for that American blonde who would come online on skype in the wee hours. Enough. You are done with all these dramas. Now you need something real. Something serious. You have for some time been longing for some love and care. You have been feeling lonely. Well. It's the right time to get married. Moreover, your parents and relatives have also been insisting this for a while. Wedding planners in Bangalore, we strongly suggest that you get married at the right age.

Now, including you, everyone is in unison that you should get married. Great!

Now, whom are you going to marry? How are you going to choose her?

You are going to spend the rest of your life with a woman and you are going to choose her from a bunch of random strangers just by looking at some photographs and visiting her family once or twice. Sounds crazy.

Successful wedding planners in Calicut and Cochin, we completely agree that the system gives you little or no room to understand the person with whom you are going to tie knots. Maybe, you can demand minutes long chit -chat with her. But, is that enough to know each other and come to a conclusion? Not at all.

Now, how are going to tackle this challenge and come through successfully? First of all, we all agree that while looks matter, there are so many factors one ought to consider while choosing a life partner. You should know clearly whether she wants to continue her job after marriage or not. You should be aware of the challenges she might face as she starts living with you in a completely different place or city. You should understand the profound emotions she would go through as she leaves her family for you. So, during that short and sweet chit-chat, you may use the session to share valuable information about lifestyle and challenges you might face as a couple in the day to day life. For example, it would be useful if you talk about the climate and traffic of Bangalore instead of asking her about her favorite colors and reality shows. But, how could you come to a conclusion that she is the right person? You will see signs that she is ready to compromise to a great extent when it comes to the place she is going to live and the challenges she is going to tackle. That is, you will see her exuding an optimistic attitude that she is too looking for the right person to tie knots. Seasoned wedding planners in Bangalore, we feel that, beyond looks and status, it is this optimistic attitude towards the married life which will serve as a driving force, foundation, for a long-lasting happy married life. So, look for such signs. And if you spot them, she will, most probably, be the right person. All the best.

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