Secret behind a successful married life

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While there is no secret formula for a successful married life, some simple ideas could help couples make it more lively and meaningful. Being a responsible wedding planners in Bangalore, we want to understand couples and challenges this city life poses to them.

First of all, what are the reasons for quarrels between husband and wife?

If we make a list, it would be, for sure, endless. Still, for the most part, ego clash is the root cause.

This ego clash is so contagious that it could branch out in myriad ways.

Who is going to call the shots about what to do in weekends?

Whose relatives should be visited and given importance?

Can’t he look after the kids when she is busy in kitchen?

Can’t she understand that his working hours are hectic and he wants to take a nap on Sundays?

After having spent 12 to 14 hours in office, how could he sit and chit-chat with her relatives who have visited them without prior notice!

On the eve of wedding, her father might have refused to his family’s wish to have a reception in his hometown. But what’s the use of lamenting about it now?

Yes. He had a love affair in his college days. He honestly confessed it over honeymoon. Now, why does she hurt him by reminding it unnecessarily when they discuss their son’s school fee? Completely irrelevant.

Above all, who is earning more and contributing more to the family?

A well-known wedding planners in Bangalore, Cochin and Calicut who has set stages for hundreds of weddings, we know that there are so many things that could set a stage for husbands and wives to lock horns and hurt each other.

Speaking of a wife, only she knows how much she goes through every day to run a family without any hiccups. Do you think husbands could completely understand the pain points of their wives? No. While a woman can understand a man completely in a spur of a moment, no man, on this earth, he may spend all his lifetime, could understand a woman completely and what she wants. Never.

Still, women compromise. They happily give up for the sake of family.

Married life is so delicate that one has to handle it with utmost care. Or else, life will turn into a hell overnight.

For men, it’s not as easy as sitting in a café and wooing a girl. It’s about making a woman feel safe and secured and happy all her life.

Of course, a man has his own problems. The bitter fact is, not everybody steps out of home comes back. He has to be cautious about each and every step so that he could come back safe and sound and make sure that he will be there for his wife and kids tomorrow. Only a man knows to what extent he compromises on the streets so that he could come back home safe.